1. NO PAY, NO GAIN

    Today’s contributor advises on her ultimate dating deal breaker

    I had been casually talking to this guy for a few months, but he had yet to make his move. He finally got the balls to ask me out when he saw another guy flirting with me. As if his hesitation weren’t enough, I should’ve known he was a snoozer when he asked via e-mail. My married boss was continuously bugging me about my single status, so I figured I’d give it a shot.

    He took me to an Americanized Mexican chain for dinner—the kind you can pretty much find on every block. I made a mental note in my snob handbook as to why a native New Yorker couldn’t find something unique. C’mon, you gotta impress on the first date.

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